December 2011
106 posts
Phew, I play Skyrim for five days straight and I...
But now it’s bed time, soooooo I’ll resume tomorrow morning.
A Soliloquy of Sorts: "Privileges" that don't... →
bidyke:
dailymurf:
iamabutchsolo:
allergictocats:
dolores-jane:
allergictocats:
dailymurf:
iamabutchsolo:
Sexual privilege (as opposed to people on the asexual spectrum)
Romantic privilege (as opposed to aromantic folks)
Vanilla privilege (as opposed to those who practice BDSM)
Monosexual privilege (as opposed to bi/pansexuals)
Human privilege (as opposed to otherkin)
There...
"Privileges" that don't exist
dailymurf:
iamabutchsolo:
dailymurf:
iamabutchsolo:
Sexual privilege (as opposed to people on the asexual spectrum)
Romantic privilege (as opposed to aromantic folks)
Vanilla privilege (as opposed to those who practice BDSM)
Monosexual privilege (as opposed to bi/pansexuals)
Human privilege (as opposed to otherkin)
There are probably more, but these are the ones I’ve heard about. What...
shutyourfacexd asked: hi! i saw your last ask and i was wondering if i could get some advice. I'm a teenager questioning my sexuality, and recently I've come to identify as a lesbian because when I'm with guys I don't really get turned on. (sorry if this is TMI) I'm not sure if I'm gay, or if I'm asexual, or both. is there anything i can do to figure it out?
monitoredliving asked: Do you think, as of right now, you could engage in a romantic relationship with a sexual person under the agreement that they may have sex with other people if they feel the need to?
ejob asked: I like how patient you are when you explain asexuality (or anything else)! :)
monitoredliving asked: I am a sexual person but Porn is to me nothing but weird, too. I think Sex just looks so.. well yes, weird. Ridiculous even. I do enact in it but if I start thinking about how it may look from the 'outside' I nearly have to giggle at it. If I do watch Porn then it's for the laughter.
Anonymous asked: So I'm a little confused...you're asexual right? So you've never had sex?Will you ever? I'm sorry just what exactly does that mean?
Anonymous asked: What gets you turned on enough to masturbate? Also, did you ever have sex with another person?
Anonymous asked: Do you masturbate?
I feel like this is the best scene I've ever...
pyroflasher:
pyroflasher:
It’s from my latest play, tentatively titled Dæmon. It’s a full length and it’s the latest installment in The Neat Freak Cycle (I.e. Dust Bunnies and Yellow Dress). It got a deal with the devil premise and deals with themes of addiction.
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Reposting because yeah.
Righteous work Eddie - just be careful of “you’re” vs. “your”...
Anonymous asked: Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
Anonymous asked: Have you read the webcomic 'girls with slingshots'? That has a homoromantic asexual relationship between Erin and Jamie (i think) which helped me understand your views a little more.
My friends, if you have TMI questions for this...
“It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent...”
– Charles Darwin (via of-praxis)
"Privileges" that don't exist
greenchestnuts:
TW acephobia, assault, sexual orientation conversion attempts
iamabutchsolo:
^ Folks on the asexual spectrum are definitely invalidated by the GSM community and straight folks alike, but it’s really on an interpersonal level that I don’t believe is actually supported by institutional systems of oppression that would warrant being sexual in itself a privilege. Plus, I think the...
"Privileges" that don't exist
dailymurf:
iamabutchsolo:
allergictocats:
dolores-jane:
allergictocats:
dailymurf:
iamabutchsolo:
Sexual privilege (as opposed to people on the asexual spectrum)
Romantic privilege (as opposed to aromantic folks)
Vanilla privilege (as opposed to those who practice BDSM)
Monosexual privilege (as opposed to bi/pansexuals)
Human privilege (as opposed to otherkin)
There are probably...
"Privileges" that don't exist
allergictocats:
dolores-jane:
allergictocats:
dailymurf:
iamabutchsolo:
Sexual privilege (as opposed to people on the asexual spectrum)
Romantic privilege (as opposed to aromantic folks)
Vanilla privilege (as opposed to those who practice BDSM)
Monosexual privilege (as opposed to bi/pansexuals)
Human privilege (as opposed to otherkin)
There are probably more, but these are the ones...
"Privileges" that don't exist
dailymurf:
iamabutchsolo:
Sexual privilege (as opposed to people on the asexual spectrum)
Romantic privilege (as opposed to aromantic folks)
Vanilla privilege (as opposed to those who practice BDSM)
Monosexual privilege (as opposed to bi/pansexuals)
Human privilege (as opposed to otherkin)
There are probably more, but these are the ones I’ve heard about. What are listed above are more...
"Privileges" that don't exist
dolores-jane:
allergictocats:
dailymurf:
iamabutchsolo:
Sexual privilege (as opposed to people on the asexual spectrum)
Romantic privilege (as opposed to aromantic folks)
Vanilla privilege (as opposed to those who practice BDSM)
Monosexual privilege (as opposed to bi/pansexuals)
Human privilege (as opposed to otherkin)
There are probably more, but these are the ones I’ve heard about....
"Privileges" that don't exist
allergictocats:
dailymurf:
iamabutchsolo:
Sexual privilege (as opposed to people on the asexual spectrum)
Romantic privilege (as opposed to aromantic folks)
Vanilla privilege (as opposed to those who practice BDSM)
Monosexual privilege (as opposed to bi/pansexuals)
Human privilege (as opposed to otherkin)
There are probably more, but these are the ones I’ve heard about. What are listed...
alisonofagun:
A Soliloquy of Sorts: “Privileges” that don’t exist
iamabutchsolo:
Sexual privilege (as opposed to people on the asexual spectrum)
Romantic privilege (as opposed to aromantic folks)
Vanilla privilege (as opposed to those who practice BDSM)
Monosexual privilege (as opposed to bi/pansexuals)
Human privilege (as opposed to otherkin)
There are probably...
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"Privileges" that don't exist
Sexual privilege (as opposed to people on the asexual spectrum)
Romantic privilege (as opposed to aromantic folks)
Vanilla privilege (as opposed to those who practice BDSM)
Monosexual privilege (as opposed to bi/pansexuals)
Human privilege (as opposed to otherkin)
There are probably more, but these are the ones I’ve heard about. What are listed above are more like social advantages,...
When I was little, Christmas was the only time my mom, dad, and brother would all agree to actually spend time together as a family, and every single Christmas, it would end up with everyone fighting or yelling, and I ended up just blaming myself for all of it since it was always my idea for all of us to be together. But I always hoped that next Christmas would be better, and it never was - it...
[warnings: holocaust, genocide, eugenics, rape +...
kavitiya:
i’m too tired to link to or reblog the relevant posts that i am responding to in this post, i’m sorry, it’s also just… too many of them, and too many messages, and a lot of them saying the same thing.
i continue to be really confused and disturbed about why everyone is saying that i compared the holocaust to otherkin hate.
i don’t think that any oppressions or events or genocides are...
“In the instances when POC say shit like ‘Oh I can’t stand white folk’ or ‘Damn...”
– Briana
[warnings: genocide, holocaust, hitler, racism,...
kavitiya:
to say that this— this genocide counts, and is determined narrowly by these parameters. the holocaust orchestrated by hitler targeted anyone who was not anglo-saxon, “aryan” white. anyone who wasn’t “strong” enough, anyone who was disabled. gender and a/sexuality minorities were targeted by the holocaust. anyone who didn’t want to or couldn’t do the things the “master race” was...
“I think it’s odd that you can’t joke about rape, when people joke about murder...”
– Donald Glover (via witch-or-not)
More than one in four women are murdered? hot damn! I guess that makes rape HILARIOUS then. And yes, murder is sooooo funny, too. Violence as a whole…just, comedy gold, mirite?
(via fuckyeahfeminists)
Listen, Donald Glover. Listen. I’ve been rl patient with you,...
[warnings: mention of death, oppression of...
kavitiya:
I’m curious about your thoughts about the “otherkin are not oppressed” idea I’ve seen going around. I also would miss you horribly if you disappeared, because of death or because other reasons. <3
thank you <3333
i do think that otherkin are oppressed, and that otherkin hate and erasure is a form of systemic violent oppression. i think that non-otherkin humans have privilege...
Even after running this blog for nearly two years,...
stfusexists:
iamabutchsolo:
stfusexists:
lerista:
artisticgoldfish:
stfusexists:
Please explain the evolutionary advantage that would be given to men who like blue vs men who like pink.
Well, the blue has always been a stand in for virility seeing as men collected the berries which were blue and the ocean is blue. Also, women have vaginas (and sometimes penises) and sometimes...
Even after running this blog for nearly two years,...
stfusexists:
lerista:
artisticgoldfish:
stfusexists:
Please explain the evolutionary advantage that would be given to men who like blue vs men who like pink.
Well, the blue has always been a stand in for virility seeing as men collected the berries which were blue and the ocean is blue. Also, women have vaginas (and sometimes penises) and sometimes those are pink. Also, men have...
Reblog if you're an atheist and not a misogynist
friendlyatheist:
proudtobegodfree:
because I know you exist, you know you exist, we all know you exist.
Say what? Since when did being atheist equates with misogyny? First time I ever heard such a thing…
Because leaders of this “atheism movement” such as Christopher Hitchens and Richard Dawkins have said some very misogynistic things; there are few atheist leaders that actually...
How to tell if you, or a white person you know, is...
dumbthingswhitepplsay:
I’m sure every white person and their brother knows by now, if you say the n-word, you will be immediately be pegged as racist and be side-eyed for the rest of your natural life by even other racist white people.
But did you know that there are things you can say that AREN’T racial slurs that can make you racist?
I know. Shocker.
We’ll go over some of...
also, i have some *serious* reservations about...
firstrisingvibes:
kiriamaya:
midwestmountainmama:
I mean, i don’t generally quibble over it, because i understand what the point is that is trying to be made. but i do have serious reservations about personal political beliefs being described as “internalized racism” or sexism or whatever. because i find this phrased to be used almost entirely as a weapon to silence disenting opinions—for...
Whenever a woman says, "I hate girls; they're...
theunfinishedwriter:
iamabutchsolo:
theunfinishedwriter:
iamabutchsolo:
theunfinishedwriter:
And yet it’s not nearly as terrible for women to hate men? Or men to hate other men? It’s only a shame when it’s hate on women?
Well, what have we learned today, children?
Hate is the most harmful when it’s against women.
Equality. You’re doing it wrong.
Uh, I think you’re conflating a few...
Tate is Not a Good Guy, He's Abusive
aria-watches-tv:
[TW: Domestic abuse, rape, murder]
People need to stop saying that Violet should get back together with Tate because he’s so “kind” and “sweet” and “really loves her” and that “he’s cute.”
Actually, he’s kind of a sociopath who is possessive and controlling, violent, and, oh yeah, a rapist. Like seriously, Edward Cullen probably gets relationship advice from this guy.
Tate is...
Whenever a woman says, "I hate girls; they're...
theunfinishedwriter:
iamabutchsolo:
theunfinishedwriter:
And yet it’s not nearly as terrible for women to hate men? Or men to hate other men? It’s only a shame when it’s hate on women?
Well, what have we learned today, children?
Hate is the most harmful when it’s against women.
Equality. You’re doing it wrong.
Uh, I think you’re conflating a few separate issues that don’t correlate to...
Whenever a woman says, "I hate girls; they're...
theunfinishedwriter:
And yet it’s not nearly as terrible for women to hate men? Or men to hate other men? It’s only a shame when it’s hate on women?
Well, what have we learned today, children?
Hate is the most harmful when it’s against women.
Equality. You’re doing it wrong.
Uh, I think you’re conflating a few separate issues that don’t correlate to the same idea. Patriarchy...
Whenever a woman says, "I hate girls; they're...
alisonofagun asked: Oh, I may have misunderstood. Does your list include movies where unnamed characters or extras of color die first? When I saw your list the first time, I assumed it was in reference to Book's death, and his is definitely the first "important" death. I ~think~ the first death in Serenity is a white person being punished for allowing Simon to infiltrate the Alliance and rescue his...