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Ableism able-bodied ableist crazy disabled discourse dumb hysterical idiot institutional intersectionality language policing mad neurotypical oppression power privilege racism sexism slurs social justice stupid feminism
Ableism Language Queries
TW: Ableism, Slurs
Firstly, yes, I am able-bodied and neurotypical, so I recognize my privilege and I am treading lightly with this post (just in case someone is wondering if I’m privilege-denying).
I’ve never used the word “retarded,” and I stopped using “dumb” a long time ago. I’ve recently stopped using “crazy” at the behest of people on tumblr explaining that they it is ableist, and I understand that, though I go back and forth on how I feel about it.
But even though I’ve also been actively eliminating “stupid” and “idiot” from my vocabulary, I can’t help but feel like they are words that evolved so much that they don’t exactly fit the profile of words that reflect an ableist system. I know that I personally have used “stupid” and “idiot” not as words referring to someone’s mental capacity, but their lack of common sense. To me, they seem like words that have evolved too much to actually be ableist because the context has just changed. Would removing stupid and idiot really have an effect on ableism? I try to compare them to the words that are sexist or racist or heterosexist, but I don’t find something like “stupid” to be analogous to words like “bitch,” or “cunt,” or “faggot” or “nigger” in the sense that those words still have a clear sting of oppression, while words like “stupid” and “idiot,” at least in my mind, do not.
What about words like “mad” or “hysterical”? Those were used to discredit people’s opinions and abilities in the past, yet as far as I know, no one decries those words as ableist. Perhaps it’s a stretch, but I don’t know if there is a line between words that are ableist and words that are just a part of the past and have evolved into different contexts.
Also, just in general, I have this sense that on tumblr, when people “discuss” ableism, there is more language policing than people producing actual content about ableism as a system and how it permeates the culture on a more institutional level rather than just in interpersonal conversation. People seem to simplify ableism to manifestations of words that are deemed ableist, but I rarely see actual discourse on how ableism functions as a system.
Perhaps I just need a stern talking to, because again, I’m neurotypical, but it’s just been on my mind and something I needed to get out of my head. Because, as I write this, I feel like I’m not being a good ally, but I also feel like I’m missing pieces of a puzzle.
